There is far too much yucky stuff (a.k.a. responsibilities) that comes with the title. Bills to pay, taxes to file, laundry to do, houses to keep clean, jobs to find...ick.
I'm over it.
I want to go back to the days when my biggest concern was whether or not the cute guy with the locker two rows down from mine knew I was alive.
Do you remember those days?
Homework was pretty much the biggest responsibility we had. Many of us had chores that we *had* to do for Mom & Dad - but, those paled in comparison to homework and our social calendar.
Now my calendar (the non-social one) is filled with reminders to pay this bill and that premium...as well as appointment reminders for annual check-ups and vehicle repairs. Man! Being responsible is hard work! Exhausting actually!
I miss the days when "weekend" meant deciding whose house we were going to hang out at - preferrably the one we can all crash at because their mom is cool with it - and which movie to rent. We'd easily divide up the snack responsibilities (chips, soda, pizza, ice cream) - go to the store - buy everything we wanted and hunker down to "hang out" with our besties. Now...weekends are often the time used for things we can't do during the week. Like yard work & household repairs. So boring.
Weekends of "fun" are now planned well in advance and often require saving extra funds and scheduling time off from work. Far too much work for what is supposed to be relaxing. It really sucks.
All those school holidays we had and looked forward to? Gone.
Couple weeks off here and there for Christmas and Easter? Gone.
The occasional babysitting gig to buy something special at the mall? Thing of the past.
Being a Grown-up means 40+ hour work weeks, W-2s, budgets and mortgages.
Yep. I definitely want off this merry-go-round. Same thing, year in and year out. Not much changes and there isn't much to look forward to anymore. All those milestone birthdays have passed - except, perhaps, the year that we qualify for a "senior discount"
I miss the variety & spice that came with youthgul, ignorant bliss.
Life is filled with routine and requirement now...and I am not a fan.
Kids...enjoy your youth...it doesn't last long!
Don't be in such a hurry to "grow up"! It's a TRAP!